"So much shifted in my life as soon as I started the coaching process. It's a little bit surreal because I am a completely different person. I don’t have to fight this constant raging battle within myself over trying to stop looking at pornography and stop masturbating. No longer having to fight that battle frees up a lot of energy to pursue the dreams and the joys that the Lord has actually given me."
"As of today, I’m 2 years porn-free. I’m a lot more clear-headed. I’m able to take care of myself better emotionally, physically, spiritually. I feel free. I don’t feel isolated. I don’t feel insignificant, like this addiction can make you feel. Most importantly, I feel seen."
"Coaching was one of the best ways to really work through my story. I've done counseling before, I've done groups with many accountability partners. But coaching was very specific. I got to work with someone who worked on this issue alone. I felt like Drew was on my side and he was going to walk alongside me through the whole process."
"I have a much deeper level of trust with my wife now. And there is no fear or shame in that area anymore. There is freedom to love with no inhibitions, because our trust is restored. And I wouldn't trade that for the world."
View this post on Instagram
Celebrating 5 years of freedom from porn this month! 🎉 Jesus changed my brain, healed my heart, and saved my marriage before it started. 🙌🏼 He’s given me more than freedom from the behavior. He’s given me freedom from the battle itself. ⚔️ No longer stressed out by sexual triggers. No longer afraid of sexual fantasies. No longer anxious about another potential relapse. Having more joy, peace, and most importantly, compassion for my younger self. ❤️ You can see why I have a burning passion to help more people experience this. That’s why @husbandmaterialmen exists! Shout out to those who have played a part in my journey: @adamcallaway @ben_fasano @yvonnejoanne @coopercadle @dthaase @wheatoncollegeil @bhoodiii @bigdcummings @churchrez @jay_stringer_ @puredesirepdmi I love you all and I’m so thankful for your impact on my life.